HNIC KINK/POLE PARTY AT BLERDCON

1. Please keep in mind we will be in the hotel, so noise is always a concern! If the party gets shutdown thats its...nights over!
2. Clothing is optional...there is a high probabilty of nudity and strong sexual themes
3. You don’t have to cuddle anyone at a Cuddle Party, ever. and everyone must attend the consent workshop before participating 
4. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)
5. If you’re a yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.
6. If you’re a maybe, say NO.
7. You are encouraged to change your mind.
8. Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner if you come as a couple.
9. Get your Cuddle Party Facilitator or the Cuddle Assistant if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the Cuddle Party.
10. Intimacy, Tears and laughter are both welcome.
11. Respect people’s privacy when sharing about Cuddle Parties. No cell phones, pics or recording allowed!
12. There will be kink, bdsm, and play demonstrations...strong sexual themes!
13. Keep the space tidy.

Arrive On Time

Once we begin the Welcome orientation, sorry, we may not let you enter late. This creates comfort and safety by knowing that everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations. The will also be no refunds.

What To Wear

Pajamas, Think more comfy, Bedroom attire...think sexy, or come as god created you....bucket nakked! but for gods sake bring a coat till you get to the room. 

What To Bring

Dollar bills to tip the dancers! Respect the art and support those entertaining you!

A pillow or blanket if you like and a blindfold. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.

Behavior

1. Do not interrupt scenes in progress or attempt to address people who appear to be playing or engaging in aftercare.
2. Harassing behavior is not permitted. If a person is engaging in harassing behavior intentionally, please report their behavior to a HNIC host or security . HARASSING BEHAVIOR may include but is not limited to: NON-CONSENSUAL BODY SHAMING: Commenting on anyone’s body or body type in any kind of derogatory manner NON-CONSENSUAL TOUCHING: This includes touching others possessions or toys PUPPY-DOGGING or OTHER PREDATORY BEHAVIOR: Following a person(s) around, pressing for scenes despite receiving multiple “No” (both soft and hard No’s) answers are some examples INTENTIONALLY DISRESPECTING PROTOCOL: If you are engaging in high protocol, it is your responsibility to inform others if they are infringing. INTENTIONALLY MISGENDERING PEOPLE: If you have specific pronouns, it is your responsibility to inform others if they are using the incorrect pronouns. After you have done so, it is expected that all RKS attendees respect this. AGEIST/RACIST/SEXIST REMARKS
3. Be cognizant of noise level of conversation around scenes. If the noise level is interrupting your scene, we encourage you to politely ask people to quiet the conversation down. It is expected that individuals will take this into account and adjust vocal levels.
4. When observing scenes, the impetus is on the observer to remove themselves from the situation if a scene makes them uncomfortable.
5. Do not get on the pole without permission.

Get Your Freak On!

Now you can safely attend our kink event with a hot outfit that will turn heads! We reserve the right to remove anyone from the event without offering justification.